College is an incredibly different experience than high school. This simple fact is what makes it tough for many people to make the proper transition. The classes are harder, the stress is higher, and you don't have parent's to answer to. You have quite a bit of freedom. Making friends in college is easier than you think.

    The first thing you should remember is that the beginning of the year is prime time to make friends. No one has established connections with anyone. That means that you can go in there, and make many friends in a single day or night simply because you started talking to someone. In high school, it may have been a bit tough to approach people when all their friends are around. But in college, no one has friends at the start. Use this idea to your advantage.

    Don't be afraid to talk to people. And don't be afraid to listen. Kids are used to unloading on their parents, and when their parents are gone, they are going to need someone to unload on. If you can become that person for someone, they will be your friend for years to come.

    Don't sit in your dorm room at night. Video games are the biggest problem with people just sitting in their rooms all night. Don't be like that. You need to have a leg up on the competition.

    Set up study groups. Not only will this help you with classes, but you'll meet people at the same point in their college careers.

    大學(xué)相對(duì)于高中是一段難以想象、完全不同的經(jīng)歷。對(duì)于許多人來(lái)說(shuō)，如何適應(yīng)這種轉(zhuǎn)變，是你必須自己面對(duì)的事情。功課更加繁重，壓力增大，沒(méi)有父母告訴你該怎么做。你獲得了相對(duì)的一些自由，交朋友也因此變得更加簡(jiǎn)單。

    你要記得的第一件事是上大學(xué)的第一年是交朋友的黃金時(shí)段。大家都不熟悉，沒(méi)有固定的關(guān)系。這就意味著，在某一天或某個(gè)晚上，僅僅因?yàn)槟愫湍承┤碎_(kāi)始交談，你就能交到許多朋友。在中學(xué)，當(dāng)其所有他人有自己的圈子的時(shí)候，你很難進(jìn)入其中。但是在大學(xué)，當(dāng)開(kāi)始的時(shí)候，大家都沒(méi)有朋友。利用這種觀念展現(xiàn)你的優(yōu)點(diǎn)。

    不要害怕對(duì)別人講話， 不要害怕聽(tīng)別人說(shuō)話。嬰兒對(duì)父母是沒(méi)有防備的，當(dāng)父母不在身邊的時(shí)候，他們需要?jiǎng)e人讓其沒(méi)有防備。如果你能讓某些人對(duì)你卸下心防，他們就會(huì)變成你多年的朋友。

    晚上不要呆在宿舍里，對(duì)于那些整晚呆在宿舍里的人，電腦游戲是最大的問(wèn)題。不要像他們那樣，你必須和大家在一起。

    成立研究小組，這不但會(huì)有助于學(xué)習(xí)功課，并且你能夠在這里遇到許多朋友。