Every person is unique; one thing that makes us different from others is our perceptions. We make our world through our perspectives and outlooks in life. Problem is one of the hardest things that a person can face in his day-to-day living. A simple problem may lead up to a more complicated thing. But we can avoid this, if we know how to solve our problems in the most positive ways. Here are my own personal techniques of how I face my most difficult situations in life.

    Analyze the Problem.

    If a problem has no solution to begin with, have the second thought that it is not a problem （Benney）. It is a consequence for your own actions. Analyzing the situation can help you think of ways of how you face it and solve it.

    Sit back, relax, and think.

    This is the most optimistic way of facing your problem. Range can lead to a more complicated situation. Relax, and think of ways of how you can handle it. Careful thinking can be the most effective way of solving a struggle in life. But remember that don't think about your problems too much. Excessive thinking can make you stressful, and by this you cannot solve right.

    Motivate yourself.

    Always remember that for every problem, there must be a solution （Benney）. An action without motivation is incomplete. One must motivate him first before he can solve his problem. This can make you persistent and be brave enough not to give up.

    Accept Facts.

    Now, here's the catch. Accepting the truth can be the most difficult way of solving your struggle. You can't always do what you want. One cannot make things go in their own likeness. This is one of the philosophies in life. Motivation can help you accept things that cannot be changed. Experience is the best teacher. Through these struggles you can be a better person than you were before. Wherever you go, you cannot escape from the truth that there is problem everywhere （Benney）.

    Have the Right Attitude. Think Positive.

    You may have the optimistic thinking by changing your viewpoint about things （Silva, Goldman 40）. You will be unhappy if you just let yourself accept the things that you don't like. By positive thinking, you will have the right attitude towards your problem. Just always think that, there is no problem without a solution （Benney）. Treat them as math question, once you've find out what is the formula for the given problem, with the given variables, you can simply solve it and find the answer. Have the positive outlook that, problem is not bad or good, it is just how you perceive it （Silva, Goldman 39）. So by changing your aspect in life, facing your struggles can be the easiest and the most enjoying thing to do. A problem can also be the solution to a bigger problem, it can lead to new discoveries and inventions, and having the optimistic mind can help a great number of people （Benney）.

    Do your actions.

    Thinking without actions is useless, be brave enough to face the challenges. Have it in your mind that all of your careful thinking will be useless if you don't work on it. Be strong enough and solve your hindrances in life like a hero. And always have the child's innocence in life. For them, life is simple. So if you treat your own world like this, doing your solutions to your problems may not be complicated as you thought it would be.

    Pray.

    Do whatever you can do, and just let God do the things that are beyond your boundaries. Pray, and have the faith that everything will be just fine. Have faith on Him that he will guide you throughout your struggle.

    Don't make your life complicated and miserable. Changing your viewpoint and outlook in life are the keys in making your world be a better place for you.

    每個(gè)人都是不同的；唯一讓你不同于其他人的就是我們的感知。在生活中，我們通過自己的感知和前景來實(shí)現(xiàn)自己的世界。問題是在他們每天的生活中遇到的最最困難的事。一個(gè)簡單的問題可以導(dǎo)致更多個(gè)復(fù)雜問題的產(chǎn)生。但是我們能夠避免這樣的問題發(fā)生，如果我們知道如何能夠在更多正確的條件下解決我們的問題。這有一些我個(gè)人的方法，是針對(duì)我如何應(yīng)對(duì)出現(xiàn)在我生活中的一些困難情況的。

    分析問題

    如果問題從一開始就未被解決，就換念想下，那根本就不是問題。它只是我們自身行為的一個(gè)結(jié)果。分析情形可以幫助你相處更多如果面對(duì)困難并解決困難的辦法。

    向后靠著坐，放松，思考

    這是一種最為樂觀切面對(duì)問題的方式。距離可以導(dǎo)致更復(fù)雜的問題產(chǎn)生。放松，和思考的方法可以教你如何處理問題。認(rèn)真的思考可以使你用更有效的方法來解決發(fā)生在你生活中的捆饒你的問題。但是記住不要想太多關(guān)于你的問題了。過度的想那些就會(huì)使你更有壓力，也就不容易解決問題了。

    激發(fā)自己

    時(shí)刻要記住，對(duì)于每個(gè)問題都必須要解決。一個(gè)缺乏動(dòng)機(jī)的行動(dòng)是不完美的。在一個(gè)人能夠解決問題之前，他首先必須要激發(fā)自己。這能夠使你自己堅(jiān)持不屑的，足夠勇敢決不氣餒。

    接受事實(shí)

    接受事實(shí)是在解決你所遇到困難最最困難的一方面。你不能總是為所欲為。一個(gè)人不能讓事情隨自己的想法去發(fā)展。在生活中這是一條人生哲學(xué)。動(dòng)機(jī)能幫助你接受那種不可改變的事實(shí)。經(jīng)歷是最好的老師。通過這些困難，你可以是相比自己進(jìn)步的人；無論你去什么地方，你都不能逃避事實(shí)，這是普遍存在的問題。

    正確的態(tài)度。正確的思維

    你可以通過改變對(duì)事情的觀點(diǎn)來端正一個(gè)樂觀的想象。如果你僅僅是讓自己接受你不喜歡的事情，那會(huì)讓你很不高興。通過正確的思考，你會(huì)端正你對(duì)問題的態(tài)度。就是要總想著，這是一個(gè)可以解決的小問題。用數(shù)學(xué)的方法來處理它，一旦你找出了所給問題的方程式，以及它的變化性，你就會(huì)很輕松的解決它，并找出問題的答案了。要有一個(gè)正確的展望，問題不是好就是壞，只是自己如何看它罷了。因此通過改變你在生活中的影響，面對(duì)你的問題那就會(huì)是最簡單，和最有樂趣的事情。問題也可以變?yōu)榻鉀Q一些更大的問題，你可以產(chǎn)生新的發(fā)現(xiàn)或是發(fā)明，有更多樂觀的思想能夠幫助更多的人。

    祈禱

    做你能做到的事，讓老天老完成你能力以外的事情。保佑，堅(jiān)信每件事都會(huì)好起來的。要對(duì)它堅(jiān)信你會(huì)在這場戰(zhàn)爭中左右了它的。

    不要讓你的生活過的過于復(fù)雜和痛苦。改變你的觀點(diǎn)和你人生中的展望，它們是使你的世界變的更好的關(guān)鍵。